Here are some of my favorite cookbooks.

BBQ Related
Barbecue Bible - Steven Raichlen
BBQ25 - Adam Perry Lang
Big Bob Gibson's BBQ Book - Chris Lilly
Peace, Love, and BBQ - Mike Mills & Amy Mills Tunnicliffe
Planet Barbecue! - Steven Raichlen
Smoke and Spice -Cheryl and Bill Jamison

The Fresh Market 25th Anniversary Cookbook
Joy Of Cooking (Yes, the much hated 1997 version)
Live Love Eat - Wolfgang Puck